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Just don’t place unfair expectations on the guys you date – they don’t have a Hollywood imagination (let alone budget) working on your third date. And if you are dating someone, you’re just dating, you are not engaged or married. The Situation: Guys and girls are attracted to one another.The Solution: There are rom-coms and there’s real life, so just try to stay rooted in reality: when a man wants to ask a woman out on a date, he will. We live in a world that treats sex (and other sexual acts) like no big deal, where “as long as you’re in love, it’s okay,” and where you don’t have to go looking for porn, because porn comes looking for you. He Says: We tend, especially as men, to think chastity is just saying no, but it’s so much more than that. It is saying I will respect myself, my family, my girlfriend, my future wife, and my future children.

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The Situation: Things seem to be going pretty well – and then all of a sudden it ends with one line: “It’s not you, it’s God.” Sometimes, well-intentioned Catholics will use God to get out of a relationship they don’t want to be in anymore. Those are both decisions that we made for ourselves, but they sound way better if God told us to do it.He Says: Women will be absolutely shocked if you ask them out on a date – to their face – and use the word ‘date.’ Women like men who are confident in person, not behind a keyboard.If you’re nervous, that’s okay (she’ll think it’s cute).Anything less than chastity is settling – and you were made for more, so please don’t settle for less. We’re not good at this whole being-upfront-about-feelings things, because we’ve grown up in a world where whoever cares the least wins.The Situation: It starts in kindergarten, with playground shoves and pulling hair (that means he likes you? So how on earth are we actually supposed to get it together?Neither of those situations are good for our sanity.

If a guy shows an interest in you, it’s okay to let him know you like him, too.

If I tell a joke to a girl and she laughs, does that mean I’ve messed with her emotional chastity by inadvertently flirting?

Oh no, he sneezed and I said ‘God bless you’ – I hope he doesn’t think I have a crush on him! Be friends with your friends and pursue the women you want to date (one at a time, of course).

The Solution: Chastity is not primarily a no to sex, but a yes to God’s plan for sex and our sexuality.

His will is that sex would be about life and love in the commitment of marriage – not that we would use another person for temporary pleasure.

Break-ups are always tough, but they’re even harder when the person you’ve been dating tells you that they’re ending things because God told them to. Someone once ended things with me by saying, “It’s what God wants” – and I can 100% say I’m glad that didn’t work out, but I wish she wouldn’t have played the God card.