Courting instead of dating
Unfortunately, this custom often prevents the tribeswomen from feeling adequate and whole.As researchers have surmised, it is no wonder why many Nacirema women have trouble finding mates. I'm talking about AMERICAN women -- Nacirema is American spelled backwards.
In reality, he was writing about 1950s America and many of our obsessive bodily rituals and customs, ones that can certainly be deemed peculiar and backwards simply by describing them using different language. I added to Miner's study and followed his lead, discussing, in crude terms, some of the more ridiculous rituals we find ourselves taking part in when it comes to matters of the heart.Really the question is what is wrong with your or at least your presentation of yourself? I'll Do Anything, there are plenty of you out there. Any dominant woman that responds to your email is apt to be a beginner. But there are pure masochists and sadists who only giggle at words like slave and Mistress. You'll need to make sure you approach women whose desires complement yours.Within a month promises of being willing to do anything will only prove to her that she doesn't want anything to do with you. Use Yahoo Geocities or similar service and create a simple web page. If you aren't able to write discursively and personally put up a simple slave's checklist.When in the courting phase, which often consists of sitting around a long wooden table at the heart of the village, sipping a drink called lohocla (lo-HO-claw) from wooden cups whittled from the rednetrab (red-NET-trab) tree, it is common for Nacirema women to discuss the color of their robes for a tribe wedding ceremony.Stories within the Nacirema village abound of women making poor decisions by consuming too much lohocla, a mood-altering substance that has been known to cause women to flail their limbs about and to slur their speech.The checklist is a simple list of fetishes and kinks.
For each item note how you feel: Let her know if you see D/s as a lifestyle or a form of play. The more honestly felt words you present about yourself the better your chances of meeting a compatible Domme.
Researchers have noted that the women believe this temporary fakery will attract their suitors and solidify their interest in a marriage.
Quite bizarrely, Nacirema women have a tendency to move very quickly when they meet someone they like.
Recently, I spent some time digging deeper into the Nacirema culture.
After long hours of research, I uncovered additional information about the Nacirema's mating and coupling customs, which, of course, piqued my interest given my specialty as a dating coach and columnist.
You do read stories of women who reduce men to 24/7 sissymaids and permanent cuckolds.