Dating a older women
Photograph: Nick Cannon and Mariah Carey at a film premier Source: https://flic.kr/p/5o TDa F " data-medium-file="https://daily.jstor.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/mariah_carey_nick_cannon_1050x700-300x200.jpg" data-large-file="https://daily.jstor.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/mariah_carey_nick_cannon_1050x700-1024x683.jpg" /More women than ever are dating younger men. Even though these relationships are so common that multiple TV shows have been created about them, they continue to be stigmatized.
Because most women have historically had fewer job opportunities, they have chosen partners based on their wealth.But many cultures, not just Western ones, have biases against older woman-younger man pairings. believe that a relationship with an older woman makes a young man grow old or causes diseases, or even an early death, while it rejuvenates the woman and makes her more beautiful,” according to the demographer Barthelemy Kuate-Defo.In actuality, according to the demographer Sven Drefahl’s analysis of data on nearly two million Danish couples, the opposite is the case.What occupies residency in our souls is the spiritual, the mental, the physical, and the delicious capacity to understand that not every day is rosy and awesome.We desire all aspects of the psyche to undergo the metamorphosis needed to be a well-rounded human.But now that women can support themselves, they are using attractiveness as their main criterion.
Women’s financial independence may be the key to understanding why such relationships are so controversial: They challenge traditional gender roles. Women’s sexual desirability is traditionally correlated with youth.
Dating an older woman requires ounces of contemplation. And by that I mean, if a younger man decides he has met the woman of his dreams, and she falls into the “cougar” status (I’m not a fan of that word, yet it still gets tossed around in the dating circles) then he had best be prepared to respect and be kind. When older women have experienced everything under the sun, and choose to continue in a realm of maturity and laughter, there is nothing more appealing than simplicity of living. We prefer the security of a man who knows how to please in the simplest of ways.
And our purpose in life boils down to who you are, how are you doing emotionally, and can you still dance?
To be sure, not all cultures stigmatize older woman-younger man relationships.
In the Lepcha tribe, which resides in the Asian highlands, such relationships are considered normal.
This is the definition of simplicity to older women.