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Over the past few years I have written about boundaries, your personal limits of what you will and won’t put up with, many times.Yet, every day I hear from women who even in reading about boundaries and knowing the importance of them are afraid to actually divorce on the horizon, and who are not over their ex. You’re not someone to pass time with while they figure out what they do and don’t want, and the moment that you involve yourself in any of the above situations, the person knows that they don’t really have to do anything.
Even though love is not there from the outset, there is no excuse for someone not to treat you with care, trust, and respect. By the same token, if loving them means you can’t love you, always choose you.People who have integrity and respect you don’t lie to you.when someone is not interested or is half hearted and using you for what they can get, or has outright turned you down.Don’t make it up as you go along either and come up with your own reasons for why you think they behave as they do. Respect your own boundaries, so that either others do, or you recognise when they don’t.But do not make exceptions because you will keep lengthening your yardstick. Baggage Reclaim is a guide to learning to live and love with self-esteem by breaking the patterns that stand in your way.If they were interested, you wouldn’t still be chasing them!
This means no pursuing them after they have turned you down, been half hearted in their interest, shagged around on you, not bothered to call you, pit you against other women and certainly no chasing someone to convince them that they should be interested in you.
You cannot work your way up from booty call to girlfriend.
Likewise, if your relationship is all about the sex and you want more than this, opt out.
Don’t let anybody dripfeed you the truth, twist it around, or repeatedly lie to you and get caught out.
If you accept it, they’ll think they have license to keep lying to you.
You have more self respect than this and you don’t need to be the equivalent of a used car salesman forcing yourself on someone. I will not play Florence Nightingale because it is not my job to fix/heal/help the Walking Wounded, which means no partners with substance dependency/abuse and no partners that have issues that prevent them from healthily engaging in a relationship. Let them sort out their own problems and don’t hide behind theirs.